Wednesday, March 20, 2013

I CAN FINALLY COOK!!!!


My experience with taking Cooking Matters for Adults has been enlightening.  I am only afraid of snakes, rats, and cooking.  Yes, I was afraid of cooking.  Wouldn't you be afraid of something you did sooooo poorly. 
I grew up in a neighborhood full of immigrants from Russia, Poland, Greece, Puerto Rico, Korea, China, and other countries in Europe and the Middle East.  I had smelled so many scents coming from different kitchens.  I guess my palate became picky and confused.  I had one love.  I loved every type of vegetable.  Broccoli, brussel sprouts, cabbage, carrots, spinach and so on.  My mom rarely seasoned it so I tasted each vegetable in its pure form. 
Fast forward to today, a married woman with kids who cannot cook to save her life.  I have burned more pots than food.  My meat, vegetables, and starch so void of seasoning my husband sneaks a burger from hardees just to make sure his tongue works. 
So one day the family development specialist at TAP Head Start invited me to a FREE cooking class that is sponsored by my daughter school.  I looked at her with apprehension but agreed to take it.  The first day was daunting.  These people did not know how horrible I was.  I almost didn't show.  On the other hand, I am a woman that likes to be challenged. The objective was to go for 6 weeks and if I did, I would receive a gift at the end.  I always loved an attendance challenge. 
My first day was great.  I knew about nutrition but I didn't know about labels, costs, methods in cutting, and seasoning.  To make the LONG story short, these people taught me how to shop, cook healthy and delicious meals for my family economically.  I couldn't help but practice after each class because they actually BOUGHT my food for me to try out.  So, here are the masterpieces I made at home because of this class. My meals were so delicious; my husband thought I bought them from the store.  What a compliment!





Sunday, February 17, 2013

Overflowing Financial Waters


Overflowing financial waters

I need to encourage someone right now concerning financial situations; especially when I am IN the midst of a financial crisis.  Our financial situation is so perplexing that it just looks like the Lord wants to see his Glory in the result of it.  Like some of you we have overflowing amounts of overdue and outstanding bills that just cannot get paid.  It is embarrassing and I am truly ashamed at being here.  My husband and I know that it was mostly a result of our financial irresponsibility and poor stewardship over money.

In 1 Kings 18:30, I saw that Elijah fixed up a broken down altar and added 12 stones to it representing the 12 tribes of Israel.  He then made a huge trench surrounding the altar.  Elijah instructed to have 4 barrels of water poured over the burned sacrifice AND wood.  He commanded this to be done 3 more times.  Elijah then filled the trench with water. 

The amount of water placed on this altar reminds me of the amount I owe.  It’s an overflowing amount of debt and bills.  My husband and I are finally seeing ‘eye to eye’ when it comes to our finances and that is a blessing.  We are both working and doing the best we can.  Like some of you, we need a miracle.  Jesus did perform the miracle in that we are finally not arguing about money anymore.  We are able to come together and talk about our bills.  That was impossibility in the past.

I am so encouraged to know how God sent fire from heaven to show the children of Israel the omnipotence of God.  When Elijah called to God to send fire from heaven it consumed 5 things completely.  The fire consumed the burnt sacrifice, the wood, stones, the dust, and the water in the trench.   How wonderful would that be if God can do our debt and outstanding/overdue bills like that!

Be encouraged and know that God is with you when you obey his commandments.  The Lord had me read and think about this passage this week about Elijah.  The funny thing is that my Pastor TODAY spoke about Elisha praying for his servant in 2 Kings 6:15.  Imagine!  Elisha had a DOUBLE portion of what Elijah had.  Elisha prayed for his servant to see the hosts of horses and chariots of fire surrounding them to protect Elisha.  How great is that.  We can pray for God to open our eyes and see God working in our lives.  Again be encouraged and know that he cares for you in all aspects, including our finances.    

 

 

Saturday, February 9, 2013

Beware of the Church Bully in You or In Others!

In Acts 9:1-7, we read about how Saul was maybe on his high horse going to help his Jewish people rid the world of these Jesus Christ followers. God had to knock him off his "high horse" and strike him blind to see what he was doing.

I have encountered bullies since the age of 7 and found them not only unpleasant but paralyzing. If you are already looking at yourself fearful that you may be one of these "church bullies" then you may NOT be, if you are quickly dismissing yourself as one only to quickly think of others that may be these "church bullies," well then you just may be ONE of them.

Church bullies are people who somehow develop this mechanism of defense. They are very defensive and find it very difficult to look at self. It is so easy and often automatic to see others faults and shortcomings. They are easily irritated with other people’s issues than their own. They often like to either form clichés or surround themselves with prominent important people, often respecting a person. They often notice the tattered hat or the over used dress worn Sunday after Sunday. They can mimic what you do and how you do it. For some reason they like to wipe that joyous smile off your face rather than encourage it. They love to hear gossip and hear everyone else’s gossip all for the sake of prayer. On the other hand, refuse to let others know about their messed up business.

  They get really upset with the person with the “blessing” they always wanted. They feel they deserve that blessing more than the other person. The unfortunate thing is that they will try to give that person a hard time verbally or physically. They might even try to make that person give up that blessing that they always wanted. The results of the church bully are usually making the person feel unwanted, unlovable, undeserving, and a total misfit.

So either watch out that you don’t leave a church because of them or be one of them. Remember Matthew 7:3, you are constantly seeing specks in others eyes but seen not one beam in yours in years.

Friday, February 8, 2013

I AM HERE, THANK GOD, I AM HERE!!!!


Yes!  I have started blogging again.  I had to pull all blogs and videos down to focus my time and energy to managing my family.  I constantly want to make sure that I am on the correct path with God. 

I had to definitely take inventory and discard unnecessary things.  I need to build and develop things for growth. 

For example, I had to give up knitting in order to focus and master my sewing skills.  I also had to hone and specify my sewing skills to repurposing clothes (not making things from scratch).  It took too much time and was hard to put up from my kids.  Surprisingly, I find this repurposing fun and rewarding. 

I encourage you all to make list of your needs, wants, desires, and passions and look at the time and energy you possess.  Sometimes you have to take a long hard and maybe painful look at what is worth taking time or energy away from your duties to your family.

I had to form new goals tailored to my lifestyle.  I want a simpler life. I need to focus on:


1.       My mother/wife wardrobe

2.       My involvement in my children's education

3.       Our finances

4.       Household decor/organization/cleaning

5.       Shopping/ food planning

6.       Gardening

7.       My extracurricular activities goals -piano playing, and learning 2 main languages

8.       Self maintenance-hair, skin, and simple/basic exercise

9.       Reading goals

10.   Self rejuvenation- taking time for relaxation and spa days


I notice if I don't take time out to work on this aspect of my life, something or someone will suffer.

I am also going to focus on growing and maintaining my knowledge of what I do at work.  I am a Clinical Laboratory Scientist and really need to encourage myself as well as others to keep current on skills, techniques, and knowledge.  My other blog, "www.theContinualLearningScientist.blogspot" will focus on that.

Thank you for watching this journey I will be on and I hope and pray that I am encouraging and inspiring others to be great and do well in their "niche."